12 Nov 2018

Since I was a wee lad, three things were always present in my mind.  (It was only when I was much, much older, when I realised that any of these three, never mind the combination of all of them, is rather unique.  “You mean you do NOT think this way?”) The first one was a…

The Case For The Alpha Male
28 Oct 2018

Disclaimer: the blog which follows is an exploration of fictional characters and is not to be seen or interpreted as a psychological analysis of anything in real life. If the shoe fits, though… To begin, I would like to introduce the idea of “opposites”.  The opposite of “north pole” is “south pole”, but let’s face…

When Did You Know?
22 Oct 2018

Thanks to the way my life worked out, I had no alternative but to live out and proud as a kink since my early 30s.  My ‘deviant’ photography got some mainstream traction, and people—the people I would have assumed are vanilla and would have hidden my kink from—started asking questions.  And so it was that…