14 Dec 2020

My second evening alone without my wife.  (Saturday didn’t count because it was just too damn chaotic!) I had a good-ish day.  Got some work done, had a lekker ‘kuier’ with a good friend, had chicken wings shipped to me all the way from Norway, getting d1nner from down the road, two offers to come…

13 Dec 2020

Everyone – I asked you to let me be. No one listened. Thank you. Obviously, I cannot reply personally to all of you – that will take me 3 years! “Grief is the price we pay for love”, and yeah, as a measure of love’s depths, I’d say it’s pretty fucking deep!  It was so…

12 Dec 2020

Gentle reader – There is no easy way to say it, so I’m just gonna say it. My wife, Andrea, has died. After a hell of a struggle, she lost her battle with breast cancer. She was 44 years old. I know that humanity is curious. That’s okay. We all are. You want to know…